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Friday, May 20, 2016

5 Perfect Songs for Confessing Love

 



Did you know? May 20th has the cult status of being the day for confessing of love.



 



In popular culture, the numbers 520 signifies ‘I love you’, which stems from the resemblance in their Chinese pronunciations (五二零 = 我爱你).



 



Confessing of love is never an easy task. It’s akin to defusing a time bomb.



 



Do it wrong and you would trigger an explosion of awkwardness, sounding the death knell to the friendship. Wait too long and your romantic dreams would inevitably suffer the same fate.



 



But but but... if you do it right, you will live happily ever after. Okay, maybe not ever after, but at least while the dopamine lasts.



 



If you are not good with words, why not say in it a song instead? The choice of the song, however, is not that straightforward. Too aggressive and you will scare them away. Too subtle and they may not get the message.


 


Fret not, Chords Haven is here to help with 5 perfect songs for confessing your love under different contexts.



 



#1 From Boy to Girl



 



蔡旻佑 - 我可以



 




 



我可以 陪你去看星星



不用再多说明 我就要和你在一起



 





#2 From Girl to Boy



 



S.H.E - 恋人未满



 




 



再向前一点点 我就会点头



再冲动一点点 我就不闪躲



不过三个字 别犹豫这么久



只要你说出口 你就能拥有我



 



#3 Unisex



 



Hebe, 飞轮海 - 只对你有感觉



 




 



微笑再美再甜 不是你的都不特别



眼泪再苦再咸 有你安慰又是晴天



靠的再近再贴 少了拥抱就算太远



全世界只对你有感觉



 



#4 AngMoh Boy to AngMoh Girl



 



Richard Marx - Can't Help Falling In Love



 




 



Wise man say only fools rush in



But I can’t help falling in love with you



 



#5 AngMoh Girl to AngMoh Boy



 



Colbie Caillat - Fallin For You



 




 



I’ve been spending all my time Just thinking about you



I don’t know what to do I think I’m fallin for you




 



Still waiting? Here’s a line from the movie: We Bought a Zoo.



“All it takes is 20 seconds of insane courage and great things will happen.”



 



Attaboy.



 


Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Interview with Scarlet Avenue

 



If you check out the album charts on iTunes Store (SG) today (and possibly for some time to come), perched proudly at #01, beating Adele and Hebe Tien (田馥甄) to pole position, is the album 2024 (read as ‘twenty twenty four’) by our local singer-songwriter duo Scarlet Avenue!



 



 






Scarlet Avenue


  • formed by brothers Adam (20) and Amos Ang (24)


  • spent 6 years in France where their father was posted for work


  • the name Scarlet Avenue was inspired from their family name – Ang (which stands for red in dialect) and an avenue where they used to perform at while in France


  • signed to United Records


  • released their debut EP album Happy Heartbreak in March 2014




 



Chords Haven is privileged to catch Scarlet Avenue in the midst of their hectic schedule following the album launch for a tête-à-tête about music, guitars and their debut album.



 



Music Background



 



How did you both first get acquainted with music and at what age?



Adam was 10, Amos was 14. We were always music lovers, and it all started when Amos wanted to pick up the guitar, Adam followed.



 



Do you think you inherited any musical genes?



No, we don’t think so. But it could be due to our dad who kept singing cradle songs to us when we were young.



 



You guys have charming voices and can play a mean guitar. Did you take any lessons or just plain talents?



It was all hard work. We took a few lessons at the start, but it was only once a week. When we got home, we continued to play through the day and night.


 


Adam and I were both tone death before.



 



Music Preference



 



What is the most played song on your iPod/ music player?



Adam: Riot – Scarlet Avenue (Haha..)



Amos: History – One Direction



 



Which singer/band/songwriter is your greatest music influence?



I don’t think we have any single greatest music influence of all time, because there are simply too many talented artistes out there to learn from.



 



Those who influenced us include: Guns n’ Roses, Bon Jovi, Green Day, Sum 41, Scorpions, Eagles, John Mayer, One Direction.



 



Every single one of them played an enormous role in influencing us.



 



And how did he/she/they shape your musical style?



A lot of songs we listen to have catchy melodies and riffs, lyrics that are played with words, yet simple in meaning. These kind of songs shape how we write and compose.



 



How many guitars do you both currently own? Which one is your favorite (brand+model) and why?



We own 3 to 4 each of various brands. But my (Amos) favorite brand is Gibson. The reason is because we like the sound of it and many classic rock bands were using it.



 



Songwriting



 



This is a long-standing debate between me and the missus. Which is more important for a song: melody or lyrics?



From our perspective it is the melody. The melody is the first thing that catches our attention. However, what keeps our attention is the lyrics.



 



In the writing of songs, do one of you write the melody and the other write the lyrics or do each of you would write your own lyrics and melody to better reflect your thoughts/ personality?



Well, we work both ways. If we happen to write a song each, we would always come together and share and change accordingly to how each of us feel. That is when we learn to compromise with one another.


 


There are also times when we sit down and brainstorm on what to write.



 



Albums



 



How would you describe your music to someone who maybe hasn’t heard it before? (genre/ music style)



Our music currently belongs to the Pop Rock genre. But we also enjoy exploring other genres such as Indie, Folk, Alternatives.



 



‘Love’ features prominently in the songs that you have written. So here's the big question: how do you define Love?



Love is a choice. Because you choose to love someone despite his or her imperfections.



 



Tell us more about 2024. Any songs with a saucy story behind it e.g. The Girl Next Door?



One of the songs in 2024 is The Breakup Song. The story behind this is when Adam went though a rough patch in his life. He was sitting opposite me while I was having dinner at home. He sang the first few lines from this song and broke down. I immediately told him, please record that and write it down now.



 



Going Forward



 



What's in the pipeline following the release of 2024?



We will be doing more school tours and café pop ins. We are looking forward to tour other countries too.



 



You guys are 20/24, signed to a recording company, released an EP and now a full album. That, by any standards, is a remarkable achievement. What advice would you give to aspiring local singer/songwriters?



You never know who you will meet, or where you will be in life. The only way is to stand on what you love, and see yourself at where you want to be and pursue it step by step, little by little.



 



I read that you guys are not particularly fond of Mandarin lessons back in France, so here’s a toughie for you:


 



Let’s say a mega-rich China recording company is smitten by your music and decides to sign you. For that, you have to come up with a Chinese name for your band.



 



By the way, there's a Taiwanese group in the early 90s' called 红孩儿 (Red Hot Boys) so that name’s taken. Although I highly doubt you guys were going for that.



I guess we would call ourselves 红路, hahaha.



 






 



Alrighty 红路!



 



Wish you both all the best in your music journey, from all of us at Chords Haven, which essentially is just me, the missus and baby Coven.



 



 

Monday, March 7, 2016

Scarlet Avenue - "2024" Album Review

 



Do you remember the gestational or infancy phase of your relationship where you were just getting to know your other half?



 



I'm sure you'd have had one of those mornings in the park, afternoons in the coffee house, or late nights on the phone, where you get dopamine-infused simply listening to him/ her sharing with you their life stories and deepest thoughts.



 



In their debut album 2024 comprising of 10 self-written tracks, the Ang brothers (Adam, 20 and Amos, 24) of Scarlet Avenue let you in on their most intimate thoughts and experiences, whispered in their mellow voices, reverberated by the rings of their acoustic guitars.



 





Image source: straitstimes.com



 



It is not hard to be mesmerized by the kaleidoscope of musical narratives painted in contemporary-poetic sentences. From the soft-rock YOLO-inspirational Paper Plane to the sprightly globe-trotting adventures in C’est La Vie, the waltz-y melancholic serenade in Fallin to the upbeat bitter-sweet mourning of lost love in I Won’t Forget You.



 



Fancy a tête-à-tête with Scarlet Avenue?



 



2024 is available for download on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/sg/album/2024/id1084953593



 




Image source: Scarlet Avenue’s facebook page

Friday, March 4, 2016

3 Things You Didn't Know About Tanya 蔡健雅 (As Revealed in The Hidden Singer)

 



Image source: blog.ctitv.com.tw

 


#1 Tanya used to shun mandarin love songs in her early days as a singer. She found them overly mushy and could not identify with them.



 



And the song that changed her perception?





Tanya wrote the song (with English lyrics) to commemorate her recently-ended relationship. The recording company got lyricist maestro 姚谦 to pen the Chinese lyrics.



 



It resonated with her so much, she teared.



 



And that was the first of the many heartrending tear-jerking Tanya love songs.




 


#2 There's a legendary golden triangle (黄金铁三角) in the music scene helmed proudly by our very own Tanya (蔡健雅), Xiaohan (小寒) and Eric Ng (黄韵仁).



 



With their powers combined:




 


#3 Tanya was hailed as the female 'Rain God' in the entertainment scene.



 



Wherever she went, the skies would open up. To break the jinx, she wrote the song 蔡健雅 - 别找我麻烦.



 



~乌云乌云别找我麻烦~



 



And as mysterious as it sounds, the curse was supposedly lifted.



 


Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Baby Coven Goes to Alive Museum

 



With 2015 drawing to a close, I showhanded my remaining leave for an extended break from work. Not wanting to lepak the days away, I penned a to-do list and one entry was to bring my 6-month old baby to someplace special.



 



And boy was that harder than I thought.



 



We have already stroller-ed down Orchard Road evening time, curating the christmas lightings. And we have already visited Changi Airport, walking straight past the Star Wars exhibits. *yawn*



 



Thankfully Alive Museum came knocking.





 



Our last visit was a blast and this time round with our 6-month old little one in tow, it's not hard to imagine that the fun-ness is gonna be cranked up a notch.



 



Wanting to avoid the crowd, we visited on a Thursday afternoon, making sure that baby Coven was well-fed and well-rested before we entered the museum.



 





 



But midway through the visit, Murphy's law set in and baby Coven wanted to nap again. Thankfully with the baby carrier (Tula), mommy could tuck him in and we could carry out with our photo-taking.



 



Madagascar fans alert! Upcoming zone for photo opportunity with the adorable penguins against local backdrops.



 





 



Besides the Madagascar set, there were 2 new zones: Live.Laugh.Love and Young@Heart.



 





 



Love's definitely in the air with the many artworks that form ideal backdrops for couple shots and with the chorus of Bruno Mars’ Marry You playing each time someone walks near ‘The Proposal’.



 





 



~It’s a beautiful night, we’re looking for something dumb to do,



Hey Baby, I think I wanna marry you!~



 





 



Wanting to feature baby Coven in the Live.Laugh.Love artwork, we waited for him to wake up from his nap before doing a U-turn.



 



And looking at the final products, yeah, it was well worth the wait.



 









 



With more wisdom gained from our 2nd visit to the Alive Museum, here are 5 more tips to make the most of your visit. Check out the earlier 10 tips here!



 



Tips #13-15 are for parents who are bringing their LOs.



 



#11 For best outcomes, use at least a point-and-shoot camera.



 



While helping others to take photos using their handphone cameras, I noticed that the angle of field is rather narrow and with the small confines around some of the artwork, I wasn't able to capture the entire breadth of the backdrop.



 



#12 Use your handphone camera when asking others for help to take photos.



 



With the invasion of the handphone cameras, people seem to have forgotten how to use the good old half-press for focusing. In the many instances where we asked others for help in taking the family photos, they simply poked at the shutter button which resulted in the images turning out blurred. Hence my advice is, when asking others to help take a photo, hand over your handphone camera instead. Unless you wanna teach everyone along the way the half-press technique.



 



#13 Parents leave your Capellas and Combis at home!



 



The areas are pretty confined and the stroller will greatly hamper your mobility. Put your LO in a carrier instead. There's the added convenience if your LO needs to latch along the way.



 



#14 Time your visit.



 



By 6 months, your LO would have settled into a routine. Plan the visit during your LO's active hours for you won't want him/ her to be sleeping in all the pictures.



 



#15 Bring along your LO's favorite toy or some prop that he/ she would respond to.



 



At 6 months, they may not yet respond to your calls. That's when the props come in useful to get them looking at the camera. But then again, I noticed the best shots were the candid ones so you may not want your subjects to be looking at the camera for every shot.



 



People often ask why do we bother to bring our LO on mini-excursions/ travels since they would not have any recollection of it.



 



My usual response is: 'Yes, they won't remember. But we will.'



 



With the string of holidays coming up, it's time to bring your children out to play! And while you are out, why not visit the Alive Museum for a fun-filled session with numerous amusing photos that capture the happy moments!



 



Happy holidays my friends.



 



Many thanks to Alive Museum for the invite.

Monday, November 2, 2015

10 Commercial Songs The 90s Kids Would Remember

 



衣服本来刚刚好 怎么现在扣不上?



 



If you are a 90s Singaporean kid, I bet you did more than just read the opening line.



 



And you can probably sing the next line or even the whole song!



 



And yeah, the tune is gonna stick for a while.



 



Like the darn Triple Dent Gum jingle that plague Riley's mind in the movie Inside Out, the Scott's emulsion jingle is right there on the playlist of your Forgetters who are plotting to plonk it into your control room.



 





 



Hence, at the request of you Forgetters, here are 10 songs/ jingles that stick from the good o' commercials.



 








01 | Scott's Emulsion Cod Liver Oil



 



衣服本来刚刚好,怎么现在扣不上 (为什么?)

桌子椅子那么小,小房门也钻不了 (味道好)


成长成长,我已成长 (比比看 谁比谁高)


司各脱鳘 鱼肝油 陪伴我一起成长 (我喜欢啊)



 



If you find the lyrics slightly different from what you remember, you are probably right too! ‘cos there is at least one different version that I can recall: ~小小玩具真好笑 骑单车你太过小~



 



And yes, there’s the English version too! ~Growing up, growing up, I’m growing up~



 





 








02 | Fernleaf Milk Powder



 



If you tune in to Malaysia TV1 at 5.30 pm for the cartoons, you would have probably heard this heartrending tribute to mothers: ~Ibu ibu~



 




 








03 | Nespray Milk Powder



 



Not to be outdone by it’s milk powder competitor, the Nespray commercial also has a song with a simple melody that sticks.



 



Sadly I can find this commercial on the Internet but the lyrics goes something along the lines of: ~你是我的好宝贝 你是我的心安慰~



 





 








04 | Royal Umbrella Rice - 担心



 



Hands up if the commercial makes you want to want to savour plain rice. 多吃多吃.



 




 








05 | UIC



 



UIC Oh~ UIC 清洁环抱真开心 UIC!



 




 








06 | Baygon – Stand By Me



 



The video I managed to find is not exactly the one that I remember. But the theme of sleeping soundly through the night by keeping away the mozzies is the same.



 





 








07 | Fujifilm - What A Wonderful World



 



My first encounter of the the beauty of nature and animals long before there was National Geographic. I thought the 6/8 rhythm really accentuates the carefree spirit of Mother Nature.



 




 








08 | Prudential – Life Story



 



Not a big fan of Prudential but I am say the marketing department hit the right chord with this advertisement with Dick Lee’s Life Story.



 



Car pulls up to a old dilapidated house; driver enters the house and finds an old chatek; memories start to flood back.



 



This is my life story, minute by second, a story



That goes on forever, with each breath, that I take



 



How is the plot related to insurance? I have no idea but I bet that commercial is stored as a long term memory for many of you.



 








09 | Australia Tourism Board – I Can Sing A Rainbow



 



Red and yellow and pink and green



Purple and orange and blue



 




 








10 | TDK Karaoke System



 



Anything you can sing I can sing better



I can sing anything better than you



No you can’t. Yes I can. YES WE CAN..



 



Yes, before London Choco Roll pulled the stunt of having karaoke style captions to their annoyingly memorable jingle, Karaoke system brand TDK had a commercial where a man and a lady competed to a duet accompanied by the lyrics flashing on the screen.



 



So how many commercials can you recall?


Wednesday, October 7, 2015

My NTUC Income Nightmare

 



Dear readers, sorry for the non-music related post but I’d just like to share my recent nightmarish experience in getting the NTUC IncomeShield insurance for my baby.





Here's the timeline of events:



 



19/07/15




  • Met with advisor to sign the policy documents.


  • Advisor took pictures of the health booklet. All documents including the jaundice test results were in the booklet.



 



04/08/15 (Day 0)




  • Received insurance policy booklet.


  • - On checking, we realized that the advisor had not gone through the health questionnaire with us but had filled up the questionnaire at his own discretion – simply ticked ‘no’ for all questions.


  • Some questions were incorrectly filled up because of my baby’s transient mild jaundice condition (but no phototherapy needed).


  • Contacted advisor and he replied that he will check with his manager.


  • Decided against contacting NTUC Income directly to give the advisor one redemption chance. Besides he promised to expedite the rectification process (which turned out to be crap).



 



05/08/15 (Day1)




  • When asked, advisor replied that his manager has emailed the life department to enquire about the issue.



 



12/08/15 (Day8)




  • No updates. When asked, advisor replied they will be mailing me a questionnaire to fill up.



 



19/08/15 (Day15)




  • Did not receive any mail from NTUC. Checked with advisor. He replied ‘noted’.



 



20/08/15 (Day16)




  • Decided to contact NTUC Income after all the delays and lack of initiatives from the advisor.


  • Emailed NTUC income to raise the issue.



 



21/08/15 (Day17)




  • Received message from advisor claiming that they are still looking into the matter and ask to give more time.



 



28/08/15 (Day24)




  • Called NTUC hotline to enquire about the hiccups and delays. Customer service officer replied that the questionnaire has been ‘dropped in the mail’ and I will received it in 7-10 working days.



 



31/08/15 (Day27)




  • Received a matter-of-fact email from an NTUC representative to follow up the email enquiry (20/08/15).



 




 






  • In the email, there was not the slightest hint of any wrong-doing of their staff or any apology for the inconvenience caused!


  • Replied that I have yet to receive the questionnaire and requested for softcopy so that I can submit via email.



 



02/09/15 (Day29)




  • Received softcopy of questionnaire from NTUC representative.


  • Completed and submitted questionnaire plus supporting documents on the same day.


  • The email was signed off with a request for acknowledgement of receipt of documents.



 



04/09/15 (Day31)




  • No reply. Sent a follow-up email to request for acknowledgement.



 



14/09/15 (Day41)




  • Finally received acknowledgement from NTUC representative after 2 weeks. She said that she is unable to open some documents.


  • Resent the documents.


  • Representative replied via email saying that she has submitted it to the underwriter for review.



 



28/09/15 (Day55)




  • No updates up till now. When contacted, advisor says there have been no news from the underwriters and he will try to ‘hound’ them.



 



07/10/15 (Day64)




  • Received call from a representative from the Health department to update on the process.


  • Was told that the underwriters have already made a decision; there will be exclusions imposed but she still does not know what they are. It will take a few working days for the letter to be drafted.


  • Requested for the softcopy letter to be emailed to me and she promised to send it to me as soon as it is out.



 



08/10/15 (Day65)




  • Received call from the manager handling the case to assure me that they are looking into the matter.


  • She asked if I’d like to lodge a formal complaint against the advisor and I replied ‘no’


  • I reinstated what I’m looking for is for the matter to be resolved asap and for NTUC Income to acknowledge the mistake of their staff which caused all these inconveniences for us.



 



09/10/15 (Day66)




  • Received email about the exclusion imposed.


  • It is not for the jaundice condition but for ‘head lag’ which was mentioned in the 3-month developmental checkup (‘mild head lag’)


  • The 3-month developmental checkup would not have come into the picture had we filled up the questionnaire and submitted all relevant documents at the point of signup. Why are we so sure? Because the application with Zurich in the same period was accepted without exclusions on submission of all the reports plus development milestones up till that point!



 




 




  • The email was very professionally worded but showed no consideration of the context or the feelings of the client e.g. ‘We are prepared to review the exclusion when head lag is resolved’  (highly authoritative tone; carries a connotation that we have done something wrong and therefore need their grace or pardon!) and ‘please submit the Review of Special Terms form together with an up-to-date medical report (at your expense), to include (where dates applicable): exact diagnosis, outcome of examination, development milestones, current health status management plan (matter-of-fact instruction on what needs to be done without any indication of apologetic sentiments for the extra inconvenience; note that we have to now pay more money and be subjected to their elaborate follow-up to address an issue that originated from the mistake of the advisor!)

     




  • Now, we will have to wait (again!) for the next medical examination to get the clearance, take the time and effort to submit an appeal, and then suffer the agony of the long and protracted underwriting process once (again!). We can’t imagine how long more it is going to take before we get our peace of mind and for my baby gets the exclusion free coverage that he deserves.


  • Emailed manager to raise the above concerns.



 



12/10/15 (Day69)




  • Received reply from manager saying that she has forwarded the email to the Service Quality department and they require 10 working days to conduct an investigation.


  • Requested for a Service Quality personnel to contact me to let me know what they intend to do.



 



14/10/15 (Day71)




  • Received call from Service Quality personnel to inform about the investigation process and ask for evidence on my part.


  • Submitted evidence via email.



 



21/10/15 (Day78)




  • Received call from Service Quality personnel.


  • Admitted that the issue was a lapse on their side after investigations.


  • Informed us that they are working with the Underwriting department to resolve the issue and asked for more time.



 



29/10/15 (Day86)




  • Emailed health report from latest developmental check



 



30/10/15 (Day87)




  • Received email from Service Quality personnel.


  • Issue finally resolved and my child finally got the exclusion-free policy that he deserved after 87 days!


 



 




So why are we so upset with the service from NTUC Income?




 




  1. What if we had not realized that the advisor had filled up the questionnaire at his own discretion? In the event if we had to file for claims, would NTUC reject the claims on grounds of ‘dishonesty’ in filling up the questionnaire? The advisor may have already left the company by then and we may not have proof that we had not been consulted in the filling of the questionnaire. Coincidentally, we heard of a related story where that had in fact happened!

     




  2. Throughout the episode (before I highlighted it), there was not the slightest expression of any wrong-doing of their staff or apology for the inconvenience caused. It was almost as though NTUC Income endorses the act and that we deserved the extra inconvenience caused due to the advisor’s misdeed.   

     




  3. Empty and flippant promises throughout the episode. “Yes will check and get back to you” but no response for many days and each time we had to ask for updates. “Yes will expedite/ hound them” but issue not resolved after 2 months. So that’s NTUC’s definition of fast and expedited? 

     




  4. The hardcopy questionnaire took 3 weeks to arrive from the time the advisor said they will be sending it to me! It was only after repeated requests for the softcopy questionnaire before we received it. Why couldn’t they have simply emailed the softcopy at the very start?

    For the insurance application with Zurich, they required an additional health questionnaire as well. The advisor sent me a softcopy questionnaire via email, we replied on the same day and got a response from the underwriters within a week!



     




  5. The issue has yet to be settled after 2 months. Thankfully my boy stayed healthy. But what if he had developed some ailment in this period? Would the claims have been successful? Would the new ailments be put down as exclusions which would be extremely unfair since he was healthy at the very time of policy signing?

     




  6. [Update 07/10/15] I was told that there will be exclusions imposed on the existing policy and I can choose whether or not to continue with it. However, premiums have already been paid and so according to what I found out, only nominal refunds will be made in the event if we choose to discontinue it. So either ways, we get penalized for the advisor’s misdeed. How is that fair? Also, isn’t that some kind of dirty trick? Advisors fill up questionnaire at their discretion so as to gain policy inception; if customer doesn’t notice, (WIN!) because premiums will be paid but claims may be contested; if customer notices and raises issue, inclusions will be imposed (WIN! more difficult claims) and premiums partially forfeited if discontinued (WIN!).



 



Thanks for adding to our stress of being new parents, NTUC Income.